The Lives of the Dead

Some of the most interesting people I meet are dead…

Q and A with Davoo

Originally posted May 12, 2014


(this is just a name I created for this entity, not a game given to me.) S/he is clearly different from the others thus far in that s/he is answering my mental questions.

What are my regrets, you want to know? So many, I don’t know where to begin. On the other hand, I know that no one can do it all in one body.  We break off bits of human experience and take them one life at a time. I did what I could do, to the best of my ability. And if my ability was limited, that was as it should have been — for the lessons, of course.

I had more regrets at the end of my life than I do now, because now I can see the bigger picture. Then, dying for two years, I had plenty of time to think about all the things I did wrong and all the things I should have done that I didn’t. I regretted not appreciating my parents more when they were alive. I regretted not savouring the childhoods of my kids to a greater degree. They grew up so fast!  And because we weren’t close, they moved far away and I didn’t get to see my grandkids more than a couple of times a year. I regretted not expressing to those I loved how I felt about them.

You want to know if I was a man or a woman. Does it matter? Here, there is no gender. I barely can remember through whose eyes I saw the world in which lifetime. I am still trying to figure out how I need to come back the next time.

You want to know how many lives. Honestly, I don’t remember. At least ten. It’s hard to remember further back than that. As I said, they all kind of blend together.  I’ve often been with the same souls, so I get confused sometimes if, in any particular life, I was the husband or wife, the mother or the child. It’s as if we’re a troupe of actors who often work together, always performing different plays.

How long between? Depends. Sometimes we have to figure things out first; contemplate and answer our own questions. Sometimes we have to wait for others to die, so we can be together again. But here, there is no time, so what does it matter? A month of earth time or a hundred years. It’s all the same.

Do I feel emotional pain? When I first came back I did. I was still somewhat attached to the regrets of my last body. I had to work though my guilt.   But sooner or later, I got the necessary perspective. Now when I feel anything, it’s compassion.

How? Compassion in that I understand that everyone is on their own journey. We are all doing what we need to do, and our worldly goals often conflict with others’.   Up close, we butt up against each other. We are constricted by our lack of understanding; by our base human emotions and instincts.   It is difficult to find compassion among the living.  But here, we are so removed from the pain of everyday life, we are able to see things objectively. We can watch dispassionately yet with more understanding. We can see the how the small players influence the main stage. Mostly I guess, it’s because nobody’s doing anything to us anymore so it’s easy to be generous with our love.

How does that love manifest? As I said, mostly as compassion. Sometimes, we try to whisper and nudge humans in the right direction. To them, it sounds like an inner voice. Unfortunately, most of them don’t listen. I guess we show our love in that we keep trying to make them hear us, even when they ignore us.

Do some listen better than others? Oh, some are marvelous listeners! Everybody recognizes them, too. They always seem peaceful and sure of themselves. And never afraid. Humans admire those qualities in others, but most of them don’t understand how those qualities develop. They don’t recognize that they could be the same if they only listened to those internal voices that either urged them forward or warned them away.


I hope to hear more from this entity.  My impression was, it had a lot more to tell me, and that it would, at some other time.   I look forward to our next “chat.”



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5 thoughts on “Q and A with Davoo

  1. newboldwitch on said:

    Hello Adrienne,
    This post really resonates with me. I am an “old soul” but still with lots to learn as a human entity.
    I don’t remember previous lives as such but some times and places remind me vaguely of things just beyond memory.
    My mission in this life is to serve, somethings I have been doing now for almost 76 years. I am waiting patiently, well almost, until I find out what my next calling will involve.
    You sometimes mention in your posts that you are not sure if your sources are real or imagined. They are true spirits and you have been chosen to be a link for them.
    Don’t try to force a personal communication by following paths like the breathing technique you mentioned you had found in a book a few days ago. When the pupil is ready, the Master appears. Be patient, something else I have learned in this life. All will be revealed when your time comes.
    Love and light, peace and healing to you and yours.
    Blessed be. Anne.

    Sent from my iPad

    • Thank you so much, Gail!!! Always appreciated!!!

      • I’m curious about the breathing technique, anyway. But of course, these days, the main issue is time as we are packing up two homes to move…and it’s hard to get to that mellow, meditative state long enough to channel something, let alone have the time to write it down, edit it, find the right image, etc etc.

        I don’t know whether spirits are speaking to me or if I’m tapping in to the collective unconscious (maybe they are one and the same.) In either case, it feels to me as if this is coming from OUTSIDE of me, but again, that might just be a trick of the mind.

        I don’t think we will ever really know. At least not while we’re still alive. Although the book “Change Your Mind” by Michael Pollen, which I’ve mentioned before, is really excellent. Easy to read and fascinating.

  2. Gail Kushner on said:

    This is one of my favorite pieces of your work. I posted it to two blog pages which I manage regarding psychics and spiritual principles. Thanks for all you do!

    Gail Kushner


  3. Gail Kushner on said:

    To correct myself: I posted it to two Facebook pages which I manage.



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